My last post left off with promise of good times over a long Memorial day weekend. I got more then I could have bargained for. The past two weeks have been filled with trials and turmoil and has also brought this family closer together.
I will begin on May 23rd. We headed to visit my mother for the weekend with plans to picnic, BBQ, and stay in the pool 24/7. Unfortunately mother nature had other plans and the weekend was a washout. We returned home on Sunday a day early to get ready to start the week. On the 25th (Memorial Day) we celebrated my birthday will a nice cake and some good eats. We were all in good spirits when we went to sleep that Monday night.
Sometime early Tuesday morning Hector woke me up yelling and I ran down stairs to find my sliding glass doors open and many things missing from my living room. We had been robbed! Our first in stints as parents was to check to make sure that the children were all okay and then to call 911. When the police arrived they were shocked that I hadn't gone outside after the robbers but instead went to check on the kids. I was blown away. Thanks GOD that we were all safe but my things were gone. They took my beloved computer (which is why I haven't been heard from in so long), my camera, the boys Wii game and controllers, and William's backpack from school (?!?). It was pure torture watching my kids sob as we tried to explain what had happened. William is a worrier and while he was sad over the loss of the games he was more fearful that "bad people" were in our house while we were asleep. He was scared and so was I. That feeling of complete violation was awful. The police also informed me that the robbers were surely armed since we were home at the time which didn't sit well on my mind.
After the initial shock was worn off I got on my knees and thanked God that he kept us all safe and asleep while people were in my house. I don't even want to think about what might of happened if one of us walked in during the middle of the robbery. I was moved to tears again when at dinner that evening William said a prayer for the "bad people" and asked God to help them to make better choices in the future.
I wish that I could say that I felt liberated without all the technology in my house but I was not. I am often comforted by the friends both known personally and those known only through e mail. I felt a large disconnect from much of my support system but I did bring Hector, the kids, and I closer together. I have also caught up on many books which were on my list. Life continued.
On Friday ( May 29) we were all on edge and thought that a dinner out with friends would take some of the worry off our minds. We chose a large, loud, family style Mexican restaurant and were seated right away. The kids were happy to be free from our tension filled house and were talking happily and loudly to our friends. A large man from another table started cussing at baby Donovan who was babbling to himself happily. He stood up and told us to leave the restaurant. He stated that we were " at a restaurant not a nursery school". I was shocked and speechless but Hector was not. A scene was made and the man ( I use the term loosely) left the restaurant. I was left in tears and even after many other people came up and apologised for the strangers comment I couldn't calm down. I was crying for all the things that I kept bottled up over the past week and once on tear was out they rest just followed. I was scarring the boys with my blubbering but just couldn't stop.
The next day was Saturday the 30th and William's championship baseball team was having a party at one of his teammates houses. The house was inside a gated community and Hector and I didn't have the code to open the gate. We also could get the telephone number or code since it was send via e mail and our computer was gone. William cried all the way home. I think he just finally let his tears flow too. We ended up at home having movie night with the kids with pizza and popcorn.
Sunday was may 31st and We had received free tickets to watch the Tampa Bay Rays baseball team. We headed there after church. Unfortunately A.J. woke up on the wrong side of the bed that morning and cried most of the day. I guess it was his turn to she ad some tears. We left the game during the seventh inning and 50+ dollars in junk food. The rays lost the game.



I woke up that Monday morning and resolved that this would be a better week for us. So far it has. My mother graciously is allowing me the use of the extra computer that she had at her house. It has been great to reconnect with my online friends and feel connected to the world again.
Yesterday we were invited to a friends house for dinner. The kids were happy and it felt good to get back to "normal". My friend surprised my with a brand new digital camera! In less then two weeks we have been blessed with a replacement for two of the things that were taken. God has truly rewarded us for our faith.
This morning was William's graduation from Kindergarten. I am always proud of his academic success but when he received the super citizenship award from the principle I was bursting with joy. The principle stated the award went to students who did what was right always, even when no one else was looking. I think that I was the proudest parent is the audience. When we got in the car William informed us that he "couldn't have done it without us always praying for him" My heart melted.


Hope everyone stays happy, healthy, and blessed.